Could Your Love Of Makeup Be Affecting Your Self Esteem?



Today I felt like writing something a bit different. You see "why we choose to wear makeup" and "does it improve or hinder our self-esteem?" have been just two questions that have been on my mind later.

Over the last 4 months with the help of chemical toners (mainly Pixi Glow Tonic) and various AHA products my skin is looking brighter and clearer than ever before. I'm thrilled about it! So thrilled that I thought, why not go foundation-free on occasion. Have I done that as of yet? no. I sit down to apply my makeup and the lure of foundation to conceal every single imperfection is too strong and within 20 minutes I end up with a full face of makeup. Of course, it's not a major issue but it's clear to see my self-esteem is not as good as I'd thought.

We are now in a time that's centred around perfection, whether that's perfectly filled in brows with just the right amount of highlighter to the browbone to air-brushed skin. Over time if you wear makeup in public often enough (which is most of us), it becomes a part of you and going bare face or even sans mascara can make you feel less in some way, especially when met with genuine concerns of whether you're ill! This can quickly lead to feeling less attractive, less confident, less too many things.

Social media has a gigantic role to play in this. With contouring and 'carving' out brows becoming the norm and with the addition of Snapchat filters we all quite like the idea of being pore-less and to be honest, alien-like. But it runs deeper and I guess darker than that, with the beauty gurus (I use that term lightly) of Instagram showing us how we can slim/straighten our nose, along with other body parts, without resorting to surgery or needles. But what about all the young girls and women that hadn't critically looked at their nose until watching that 20-second video? *puff* They instantly have what they'd consider another flawed feature to worry about! But don't worry that beauty guru made her commission on the contour kit she was promoting... because that's what it boils down to, right?

Makeup can of course help people feel better about themselves but with the media and the rise of the new style of beauty guru is this a new era of face shaming to increase beauty sales numbers?

I don't have the answers, but remember your body is strong and that pretty face of yours is just as good as anyone else's. 

Fee xo.

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Going makeup free is good but as you said people questioning whether you're ill or not is annoying. No I'm not ill, it is just real me lol :) Makeup improves my self confidence and I'm happy that when I was a teenager, it wasn't that big thing for us. When you keep seeing the perfections everywhere, it makes you feel down once but try to ignore it all and be the way I want to be :) x

Ela BellaWorld
I think I am okay going makeup free SOMETIMES, like popping to Tesco or running chores. I still have never come bare faced to work, brows need to be done, along with under eye concealer and maybe some blush. Defo mascara - Feel like I would look unprofessional and not well presented otherwise. It's a lot less than I used to wear to work. However it is very rare you would catch me taking a selfie to share even with that much makeup on, let alone bare faced. Would have to take so many shots and make sure lighting and filters are perfect. Crazy, considering I deem myself quite confident - clearly all our self esteems are lower than we think it is.
This is an interesting topic which I've thought about many times. More specifically, is Sephora a great thing, or a bad thing for our confidence? Do we really need all that stuff? Does having under eye circles (men have them too!!) make me less attractive? Why do I spend so much time and money on beauty stuff? But then again.. if I like it, then why would I stop? If it makes me feel better about myself, then why is that negative?
I go makeup free pretty frequently on my Instagram stories and Snapchat. It has never bothered me that much, at the end of the day, makeup can only enhance so much and this is my face for better or worse.
I do sometimes pop out without any makeup at all-like if I'm just going out for a walk or to the supermarket at the weekend, or sometimes I just put on the bare minimum-a bit of undereye concealer, mascara and run a tinted gel through my brows. But for work I always wear a more full face of makeup. It helps me feel more put together/ well presented. I must say that I am definitely more confident than I was a few years ago. For years I literally wouldn't leave the house without makeup and the first time my now husband saw me without makeup I was so scared. Silly I know but back then my skin really wasn't great and I was so self concious. x
This is always an interesting topic. And I think the answer differs from person to person. I can see how makeup and the makeup industry, especially with this beauty guru and "instagram baddie" age could hinder a person's self esteem. For someone like me, makeup is more of an art form and way for me to have fun and express myself. Once upon a time, yeah, I used it to make myself feel more attractive. But I think overtime with my evolved use and outlook on makeup, my self esteem has actually risen and I go out more often bare faced than I do with a full face of makeup. Then again, we do also live in this strange time where "a lot of makeup" is looked down upon generally, but you're also supposed to have full brows and thick long lashes and high cheek bones with a small nose. Fact is everyone is so different and the definition of beauty today is so distorted. If wearing makeup helps you feel better about yourself or more put together, do you, but I hope that every single person is or becomes comfortable with themselves enough to feel beautiful both with and without.
OMG I literally just did a post on this exact topic and talking about the same thing! I actually talked about how I use to be someone who always needed to wear a full face no matter where I was going or what I was doing, but these days I've slowly progressed that I usually only go all out if I'm heading out or really feel like dressing up - I tend to just fill in my brows these days, maybe put on a little mascara and I feel complete enough. I even had photos in the post of me not wearing makeup - I'll link in below in case you're interested :)
http://www.thenoiseinwonderland.com/2017/02/fk-ma...

Amy // www.thenoiseinwonderland.com
Okay, I hate to ask this on a post about such an important subject, but where did you get that mug??

Also, I do really love the post. It has taken me such a long time to be able to be comfortable in public without makeup, and to only wear makeup when I really want to.
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I'd love to get to that point! I'm sure I will at some stage.

It's ok :) the mug is from Le Creuset... it's one of my favourites x
I'm a 63 year old American woman who grew up during the "hippie" days which, at one point, made wearing make-up "uncool." To this day I don't wear any but actually would like to do. I have some very nice products but for some reason can't bring myself to use them. I don't think it's laziness entirely (although I tend to want to get up and go) but partly because I don't want to be noticed. And at this point anyone I know would surely notice! So, therein lies the question: is my self-esteem lacking because I don't want to be noticed and wouldn't I get a bit of a perk up if I did?
Heavy makeup is something I'm only just getting to grips with as a 20-year-old, and as much as I'm loving learning how to fill the face with wonderful artistry, I do the same as you - accidentally cover myself when I was going for just a hint of concealing here and there. The media definitely supplies a good amount of pressure to young people to look a certain way, but there is also an emphasis on lifestyle, fitness and making yourself "naturally" healthy from the inside out. If only these directions were more relaxed and emphasised our abilities to choose what's right for us, rather than attempting to fit into the big trends which we would apparently be lost without.
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I'm okay with going makeup-free, but wearing makeup makes me feel way more confident/polished/myself. I guess maybe that's negative, but if it makes me happy -?? Idk. Great post! 💕💕💕
Thanks for giving me the useful information.
Great post! Very inspiring.

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